Steak N' Lobster

We went to Red Lobster tonight for steak and lobster. It was our three month anniversary tomorrow so we went today, being Thursday. The steak was medium well and it was a New York Strip (14 oz) with an eleven ounce lobster.

I was kind of apprehensive to go there with some of the comments of the patrons about going to Red Lobster. Well, I ignored the negative comments and realized that the ones that were positive had the higher priced items on the menu combos.

We had our $50 gift card from the Christmas Gift Exchange at Ron's work party, plus our dinner only cost 5.54 cents besides the gift card. I think we chose a well used item, which was done to perfection.

The waitress took our picture. We went home and watched a BYU Basketball game.

Eating The Fruit of the Tree of Life

Partaking of the Fruit of the Tree of Life~

Everyday is a blessing and joy to me and Ron. We share our day together and go about our chores or whatever it is, is together!

We attended the temple this morning. We made an appointment the day before. The Columbia River temple is small, so they have to know ahead to plan.

Sealings are what we focused on again today. The family names we did entailed the McIntire (Paul Pershing) side, the Recio side, and Canchola. Icould just imagine in my mind's eye the gathering on the other side and their C-E-L-E-B-R-A-T-I-O-N~.

The Recio side was the last sibling of my great-grandfather, Feliciano Recio. My heart is full of gratitude to bring this family their last one into that family circle. Imagine if we were cut off from our own family and couldn't interact or be with them because we had not received our blessings for it to happen?

Sad. We cannot take lightly the work that we do there as insignificant. It is anything but that. It is everything to them. But how do we get more involved to get to the temple when it is so close?

We are Saviors on Mount Zion. It is up to us to embrace that rather than pass it off to others. My gratitude is full when I remember writing letters and making phone calls to my relatives when I had children under tow. Had I waited until now that I am "retired" to do it, it would be much more difficult. Most of those who helped answer questions I had about the ancestors are long gone.

I hope they rejoice now that their ordinances have been done and are connected somehow to FAMILY.

I bear testimony that today was like eating of that (delicious)fruit that what white and delicious beyond comprehension. We live so close to a temple and are invited to go often so that we too may partake of that fruit from the tree of life.

Our Merry First Christmas Together.

We took this snap shot of us ourselves. The first two tries were with me in Ron's shadow. So, I switched sides and it came out best. He held the camera and I touched the button with the stylus. His arms are longer. It captures how we feel.



Tanise saw it on her iPhone and wrote: Merry Christmas to the happiest couple of parents I know (ans Love). Hope you had a great "first" Christmas together as family. We love you, Tanise.

She called on Facetime and chatted a bit to wish us a Great Christmas. We got to talk to Kaiwi about his associate-ship and finishing up his dissertation. Way to go!

We went to our sacrament meeting at nine. The we came home to get ready for our guests. The three girls, Shelly, Shannon Annie and their families came by.

We had a buffet set up and they chowed that down. Then later, about seven I fried some 'taquitos' Annie helped to make more guacamole to have with the taquitos. A delicious combination.

There were lots of treats, crackers and dip, potato chips with cottage cheese with green peppers, a relish tray for the sandwiches, cold cuts, cheese. We had a plateful of cookies and treats from friends dropping by. The kids helped eat those very well. There was fresh Organic apple juice along with wassail mulling spices with cloves, cinnamon and dried orange peel, slightly warmed. Yumm.

The whole day was amazing. Several of the kids out of state called or we talked to.
Just as an FYI, Johnny was unable to come due to bad weather in Denver airport. So he stayed in Texas. Michael called on their way home from the Husted's. Tracie called too, the kids all loved their Lego Pyramids. Matt called too, and said the boys loved the same Pyramid Legos too. Hallows were thrilled with theirs too. Hank called from Djibouti first thing this morning. He was on the ball early with the time difference.

I also got a call from my grand daugher, Aislyn, who is Aaron and Candice's oldest child. She was so excited to talk to me when Ron answered. He talked her a few minutes to find out if she was having a great time. Then she asked to talk to me, her grandma. I took the phone and she blurted out that her "Mama is going to have another baby." She is thrilled as is her siblings. I am for them. Congratulations!
What a nice Christmas surprise.

Christmas Eve

It is Christmas Eve. Our first together. We went shopping for some last minute things we didn't find to finish up our shopping for each other. Ron went in the truck and I went in the car. Yesterday, he went to one store, and text me while I shopped for him to see if I was done at Target. He said "take your time and I did. He suggested that could mean more goodies! Yea!

Yes!

He went out again while I stayed home to catch up on some gift wrapping and stocking stuffers for the kids. We were going to a family get-together at Shannon's house at 4:00.

Then I had a turn to go to the store to get a few more things for Ron. I only found one or two things from my list left to buy. I think it is done. All I have to do is wrap some of his and stuff his Christmas stocking. We couldn't find the ones I brought from Utah. We bought two more from Dollar Store. I know we will come across the ones we brought as soon as Christmas is over. That is how it is sometimes.

Ron teases me about having things for him that I already had before he came into the reality of my dreams. It was about planning ahead and having room for the man of my dreams with a nice denim shirt in the closet, a tie or two, a few more casual long sleeve size "L," shirts too. Also having new dishes for my future kitchen, tools, nose clippers, or aftershave cologne. And a myriad of other things too numerous to mention that were in my storage unit!!!

"You build it and he will come," was my mantra. A quote from "Field of Dreams."

It worked. What else can I say?

Aromatics Work Party

We were treated to dinner at Ron's work Christmas party at the Country Gentleman events center in Kennewick. The company provided the gift exchange and upped the amount from $25 last year to $50 this year. Ron and Connie won the Red Lobster card, but she never got to go use it with him.

They served Turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes, salad, yams, ham and prime rib. There was pumpkin pie and strawberry cheesecake. It was fun to meet Ron's co-workers and bosses. They were very kind and welcomed me to the dinner.

Ron is in the back row. He stands out in the group and only Gringo in that row.

They had an "Ugly Sweater contest." No kidding. Lots of people decorated their sweaters, we did too. But the one who one, really did have an ugly sweater, (Not Christmasy). No wonder he won. The prize was $100. He toook the sweateroff when he won. It was sooooo ugly. LOL

A gift exchange was a $50 gift card; ours was one to choose between Red Lobster, Olive Garden, Longhorn Steak House. They had a take away option. I usually don't like that kind of gift exchange. This time the gifts were all the same value, and NO white elephants. I think that was the deal maker for me.

The cards in the gift bag were from places like, Best Buy, Nordstrom, Macey's, Dairy Queen, P. F. Chang's, Shell, Chevron, Lowe's, Red Robin, Regent Movies, K-Mart, are some of the ones I can remember. There were about 22 cards in the bag.

I drew one for Shell gas card, and Ron said he wanted the Red Lobster card. So I did. No one took it away. So there is a choice of three other places. I was okay giving up the Shell card for the dinner card. I like lobster and so does Ron. Wonder where we will go?

Wall of Fame

We had all the family's pictures printed and framed to put in our living room. All 15 are on the wall now with Ron and I in the middle with each of our children. It is our wall of fame. Amazing to see all of them side by side.

Christmas Music by Mannheim Steamroller

We were treated to a Christmas concert. We saw Mannheim Steamroller. They were fabulous. Never saw or hear such sound that brought the house down, well almost.

So much incredible talent up on stage. I sat and watch it with field glasses. I could see the main musicians playing electric violins, a piano that had some kind of magnified soumd, and it was a grand piano at that. The drummer was going nuts playing chimes, so typical of the Mannheim sound. I was in hog heaven enjoying the concert LIVE! It gave me chills to hear some of those old favorites. Hark The Herald Angels Sing, among others. IT was two hours of pure delight.

It was that good. Ron enjoyed it and didn't want it to end. It made our week.

Chocolate Turtles and Homemade Caramels

Today we made yummy caramels and chocolate turtles. Ron helped and was such a great support and I appreciated that so much. It really takes more than one person to do that kind of thing.

While one stands at the stove stirring three different times, you can't leave it. So, Ron helped fill in the spaces when I needed the pecans chopped or to butter the glass dish to pour the hot liquid. By the time we finished stirring the second batch, he was a pro and his caramel recipe turned out a lighter color than mine. The ones I did look kind of rusty color, with his more golden. We will find out tomorrow when we wrap them in wax paper what the difference it was.



Having Ron's help made the whole project go smoothly. I wasn't all stressed out when we finished either.

Another Great Day . . .

Last Wednesday we went to do more sealings for couples and children. Today we went to do some work for my maternal second-great grandparents. It was a very special feeling doing their work at the same time, the same day.

I thought their work was done a long time ago. Then. . . newFamilySearch.org came along and straightened out all my lines. These great grandparents had fourteen children. Now all but one child is sealed to them. We will do that one soon too.

There is no end of this work, but such a great testament (to me) that this work is so rewarding. I am so delighted to be a part of this important work. I could write about it for hours. But, I won't right now.

I just know that they consider having their work done here as a C-E-L-E-B-R-A-T-I-O-N, there. Just like we (do here) make a big fiesta for a baptism, with a pinata and barbecue and all, or a missionary going or coming home when they finish.
And to be sure to mention, WEDDINGS!

We went to a piano recital for Dallas and Cody this afternoon, and then to our Ward Christmas party. They had Lasagna. It was delicious. I made brownies with marshmallows melted on top with chocolate frosting. Ron liked them, but I think when I make them again I will put more butter, the ones I made were kind of dry to me.

Oh, well, I need to practice. I haven't made brownies in years.

Carolers a' Caroling

Tonight we had a knock on our door. We were in the family room, so they had to knock loudly. We answered it and it was the ward Bear scouts singing "Jingle Bells" to us.

I hurried and got their picture as they left US a treat. How thoughtful. It made our day to be remembered and sang to. They ran off before we could give them some just baked cookies.

Remembering Connie

Poinsettia for Connie's grave. We took it to decorate her headstone, in honor of Ron and Connie's 44th anniversary is Saturday, December 17.

Tonight we watched Connie's funeral DVD. It was an insight of who she is and how she loved her husband and children. She was a fun person, had innocence that was childlike, an incredibly spiritual person as well as close to the veil. Great memories and a treasure.

Farewell to a Great Couple

Carlos and Elena



These are photos of my birdies I have had about five years. I named them Carlos and Elena, and parted with them recently and feel a little sadness about it.

Elenita
They chirped sweet songs to me and even made themselves noisier when I had company or was on the phone. They mimicked me actually. Anyway I gave them to a friend who could give them a good home, lots of activity and sunshine and no longer in a basement room without natural light and or company. I will miss their chirps and squeals, my dear Carlitos and Elenita.

Carlitos

Christmas Cannot Be Bought In A Store

Today marks an anniversary. It has been sixteen years since my mother, Elena passed away. I can recall how that effected me it being so close to Christmas and being comforted through it all.

I learned a lot that year and ever since. I find myself more focused on gift giving of something that cannot be bought in a store.

I keep the commercialism of Christmas to a lower level and keep out of that part of it the best I can.

My ability to feel the Spirit of giving is finer tuned with going to musical presentations where it is in abundance. I am much happier with myself too giving simple thoughts and gifts.

I am so thankful for a mother who taught me well. She helped me learn how to be a good mother, how to take care of my home, how to cook, economize, sew and how to crochet.

Her legacy was her crochet work, so beautiful. I appreciate that kind of hand work.

Today we had tithing settlement. We had a nice visit with our Bishop and reviewed our Church records. We came home and Ron went to visit one of his home teaching families. His companion came to pick him up. Ours are coming on Tuesday evening.

980 Posts To My Blog

Wow. Can you believe that there has been 980 entries since I started blogging? I can remember not even knowing what a "blog" was. It may as well have been a foreign language back then. It was one of those coined words I knew nothing about.

How times have changed and how up with the times I became in 2007 when I started. Thanks to Hank and his example. So,"Hank You!" I could not resist that pun.

Tonight we went to a Stake Relief Society Christmas Choir presentation. It was beautiful. They sang fourteen songs, many of them were original songs written and sang a duet by the two women that wrote them.

There was a very sweet spirit there much like when Lori was choir director in her ward. There was a cello, flute and violin solo. I can see there was a lot of preparation and to perfection. The director of this event is Kaylie's (Annie and Jeremy's daughter's piano teacher.) She is a mother of five and expecting her sixth baby. That is real discipline. Although Annie mentioned that she only has two piano students, she is so busy. She is having a recital for her students on Monday. We have been invited and look forward to meeting her. I love recitals.

Ron and I were very impressed and filled with the sweetness of the worshipful music. They sang several familiar songs, O Holy Night, What Child is This?, Silent Night, The First Noel, with an original added verse. So creative. It was a great way to start the holiday Spirit through music and song.

Dreamed a Dream

I had a dream with a lot of different scenarios. It was not clear the meaning but realized after I told Ron about it that I had an indication of what it meant.

Rooms were unused for what they were meant. The rules changed from time to time without notice. Some of the projects went unfinished.

The leadership were not clear on the project's longevity.

There were trees around the place in the dream. it looked like Spring or early summer time. It was in a huge home-like setting. I was an observer.

People were coming and going. New things would come. But I would be unable to buy anything or given the opportunity to use any of the new things brought. I thought they were quite nice, but untouchable as it appeared.

I saw children coming and going. They were quite well behaved however the rules would change quite often. And it seems that they went with the flow of the rules when they were presented.

I was not sure of what all of these vignettes meant but, Ron said it was very typical of some of the projects he had known about. "Some insight." he said.

Mom Responds to An Early Christmas Gift

Hello!

I feel like Christmas has come early to the Peterson household. The pictures and video clip are just what we needed to see. I have blown up the picture and shared it with everyone in my family because we miss our son so much. Thanks again for taking the time to forward these precious glimpses into our sons mission.

Carol~

"Thank you so much for the great pictures of our son and his companions! What a nice surprise it was to get them tonight when I checked my email. And thanks also for having them in your home for dinner. It's such a good feeling to know he is meeting such good people who are being so kind and feeding him. We wish your family a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Love,
Sister Sue

"Thank you so very much for the pictures you have sent of Tyler and his companions. You have no idea how much we appreciate your kindness. Thank you also for feeding him : ). - Suzanne

It warms my heart to be able to return the favor someone did for me when Tana was on her mission and when Aaron served also. It always amazes me that such a small thing can mean soooo much.

Ye Elders of Israel

Elder Peterson, Palmer, Bergen

Today we had the privilege of inviting the (3) missionaries over for dinner. I signed up in Relief Society on Sunday.

I decided to make Chicken Cordon Bleu. We had plenty of chicken breasts in the freezer and thawed them the day before. We also had most of the ingredients so it went well to make them. The chicken breasts were doubled and were quite filling to the young men. They raved about the menu and enjoyed the "smashers", (mashed potatoes), peas and corn, with green salad. I made peach cobbler from peaches Ron had frozen last summer.

I took their pictures to send them via email to their parents. Three missionaries came to dinner. Two of them had been out only three months, the other one had been out ten. Elder Bergen, from Texas, Elder Peterson from California, and Elder Palmer from Virginia.

I emailed their pics to their mothers. They each responded and were thrilled to get a current photo and see who their companions were they said.

I know what that feels like to get a phone call or letter from someone who happened to meet my missionaries while serving. I was glad they answered and were so thankful for feeding their sons.

Ron's Kind and Loving Thoughts Speak For Him

Ron thoughts—Dec. 4-2011:

My dear Anna and I have been having some good discussions lately regarding how blessed we are to have each other at this time. Some of the results of these discussions are listed in the family Christmas letter that we have put together.

So many similarities in our likes and dislikes. It is incredible. I am so blessed to have a sweet companion that is so close to the spirit, and also gives me such comfort as she expresses her love and appreciation for my dear Connie.

This morning she was so expressive and sincere in her expressions of love and appreciation. I mentioned again to her how much Connie loves the Savior. She said that she knows that and can see the “countenance” of the Savior in Connie when she looks at her pictures, and sees how much she cared for her children and for me. She mentioned that Connie had been through the refiners fire along with me, and she was so grateful to be able to “share” me with her.

I told Anna that she too had been through the refiners fire, and had come out of the experiences as a bright shining jewel. I told her (Anna) how much I loved her, and appreciated her love for the Savior and her testimony of Him and of the gospel. I also told her how much I appreciated how she has helped me realize what a good relationship I had with Connie and confirmed my knowledge of the good person she is, and how that “training” has also helped me so much in my relationship and love for her (Anna).


Yes, as I told her “LIFE IS GOOD”

Morning Thoughts

Morning thoughts~December 4, 2011

There is such beauty in a husband and wife’s relationship that continues to impress me as I feel my Savior’s love for us as a couple. The love that God has for us also is so evident in the same way.

I know how real my Heavenly Father is and that Jesus is the Christ, his only begotten Son. I know that they are aware of me and know who I am and what I am about in my life.

Their Love for me has given me through all my trials I have had in this life such comfort and peace. I know that those experiences have given me experience to endure and come unto them.

I feel a great love and bonding toward my wonderful eternal companion and to Connie. I know that she had so much love for our Savior and for her husband and children. She blesses them and us every way that she is allowed to do.

She has the most beautiful striking blue eyes. The light in them is reflected in them and His image is upon her countenance. I can truly testify that she has received His image which is engraven upon her face which I see it in the pictures of her throughout her life.

I know that she endured the refiner’s fire of her life’s journey and experiences here on earth. The other day I was doing a massage on Ron. He was so restful and appreciative of my hands moving over his back and arms. I went to do his feet and held them in my hands and worked on the deep tissue. I, all of sudden heard in my mind “ a voice tell me how much she loved her husband Ron, and thanked me for doing the service to take good care of him for her.”

Her children are the jewels in her crown. I am impressed how they live their lives and are in honor of their mother who taught them from their early years to love the Lord with all their hearts, might and minds. She was also a powerful force for good in the life of her dear husband, Ron. I have a witness that her work continues beyond the veil and blesses each and every one that she loves and serves even still. The veil is parted just enough to feel her presence and goodness that permeates her Spirit and soul.

Many times Ron and I will have long quiet conversation especially in the morning about Connie and insights that come to mind. This morning I sensed a sweet warmth about us and had a thoughts come to mind about Connie. I know Ron loved her very much and at times must have some of feelings of her loss in his life. I then thanked him for giving me a place in his heart to share with her.

I know that we have a partnership that is beautiful and Celestial and I am so thankful for Connie and her acceptance of me to be with Ron. I cherish those thoughts and feelings and embrace them which fill my soul with great peace and love.

We went to church this morning, our meetings are from 9:00 to 12:00. We both bore our testimonies. I appreciate Ron and his support and grateful for all my blessings. How sweet it (life) is.

Cookies for the Grandsons

The boys, Logan and Dallas came over for a few hours after school.

I baked Gingerbread cookies. They snarfed ten cookies and milk in one sitting.

I think I spoiled them. They loved it. Grandma's the name, spoiling is the game. : )

Cherishing Life and It's Freedoms

Ron planted these for me the day I asked him if we could plant them by the front door. We went right over to Home Depot and found them. He also removed the rocks where the flowers where to be placed. He continues to amaze me. I am grateful for him and his kindness. What a guy. Adorable.

Pansies are for pleasant thoughts: I am sharing mine (flowers) from my front yard.

I received this today as an email to pass on to friends, but I will share it here and let anyone who sees this can send it or pass it on can.

To realize The value of a sister/brother
Ask someone
Who doesn't have one.

To realize
The value of ten years:
Ask a newly
Divorced couple.

To realize
The value of four years:
Ask a graduate.

To realize
The value of one year:
Ask a student who
Has failed a final exam.

To realize
The value of nine months:
Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.

To realize
The value of one month:
Ask a mother
Who has given birth to
A premature baby.

To realize
The value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person
Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize
The value of one second:
Ask a person
Who has survived an accident.

Time waits for no one.

Treasure every moment you have.

You will treasure it even more when
You can share it with someone special.

To realize the value of a friend or family member:

LOSE ONE.

The origin of this letter is unknown,
But it brings good luck to everyone who passes it on.

Remember.....

Hold on tight to the ones you love!

Quotes from my blog:

Live, and Love for today, for we don't know how many more tomorrows will be ours to embrace our loved ones when today is gone. A.McIntire

"Don't waste your life on trivia, vain and worldly things. Give your life every day, one day at a time, to what really matters."
Heather Christensen

Box Filled With Love

Several years ago a well meaning group of women gave out an empty gift wrapped box that resembled a small Christmas ornament. The idea was you cannot wrap love, or the box was filled with love.

This year my new ward gave out boxes with a list of items to fill the box for the Salvation Army food drive. It had a list of things for a Christmas dinner minus the turkey or ham. They distribute the boxes for those who are in need.



We were glad to participate. I was given the thought to wrap the outside of the box for the items. It felt good to get those as we shopped yesterday and made it ready for the family who will received it. May God bless them in their time of need. I have been on the receiving end before of the gift giving and am so thankful to be able to share our abundance.

Eternal Blessings Now

Fidela Recio, daughter of Jose Maria Recio-> joined to her family today.

Maxima Munoz, sealed to her parents, wife of Clemente Ulloa. Maternal Grandparent to my grandfather, Ricardo Rodriguez

Reaching Back to find the second great-grandfather whose sealing work was performed for him, his wife and children. Jose Maria Recio and Catarina, are parents to my great-grandfather, Feliciano Recio.

Eufemio Canchola, father to my grandmother Maria Del Refugio Canchola. One of his children, Aniceto, was among the ones sealed to their parents.

Today is our two month anniversary and very happily married, still! Each day we are so thankful for each other and welcome the love we share. Ron says we are happy beyond expectation. I agree. Me too.

We went this morning to the temple and did couples sealings and some children sealings to parents. What a great way to spent our morning. We also had some extra time to go to the Family History Center next door to the temple. Ron and I updated ourselves on getting back into new.familysearch.org. website. Lots of records to get ready for more blessings for those on the other side that we enjoy here and now of being forever family.
Maria del Refugio Canchola and Ricardo Rodriguez, the original ancestors from Guanajuato, Mexico



Now we can work on our records from home. I was pleased to see the center had a business size card for patrons to write down their user names and passwords to take home. It is so annoying to forget the password and have to start over when trying to get into the website.

I am eternally grateful for the access I have had for these photos over the years. I continued forward even with small children to do my family history work. I have been blessed having these in my collection. My joy is full.

Patience and Waiting on the Lord

Alonso underground tunnel in Guanajuato, Guanajuato. Mexico


The Pyramids of Mexico City . . .

Each day Ron and I pray for the opportunities to serve and to prepare us for those same to come to pass.

Years ago I visited Guanajuato with my grandfather Ricardo Rodriguez and my youngest sister, Linda. He showed us where he grew up and where he and his father worked in the silver mines along the minerales aka as the pueblecitos named La Luz, Posos, Dolores Hidalgo, San Felipe and Guanajuato.

It has always been my hope and prayer to be able to go back to visit Guanajuato, the capital of the state of Guanajuato.

Today we heard about a project in the works for some time next year overseeing one hundred-twenty acres of fruit orchards. Ron has been highly recommended by some of his former colleagues. They sound very hopeful Ron would to go there to help them.

I feel the hand of the Lord prompting from the other side influencing what we may be given to do at a future time; and answers to prayer. My heart is so full that when I thought about this today, I was in tears with joy and the subtle way in how the Lord works and hears the yearnings of our hearts and desires as I ponder them today.

I feel my father close and know he would be pleased to see me go back to Guanajuato. His birthday was yesterday and has been on my mind perhaps of the connection. Quien sabe?

There is a lot to look forward to do, nevertheless.

Our First Christmas Tree

Close up of the birds on the tree. Love those birdies!



It has been about six years since I last had a Christmas tree of my own to decorate. We took out all the decorations that were packed in boxes in the move and went for it. There were some that I had never used and decided to use them this year. Ron helped me decorate it, after finding the boxes--he is such a good sport.

Ron wanted to make sure we got a really nice silk Christmas tree. I most appreciated that about him. It is another dream come true. What a PRINCE.

Frazzled . . .

Today I tagged along with Matt (he asked me to come) as he wanted to go do a little Black Friday shopping. He and Beth went last night for some early Christmas shopping. They didn't find everything they wanted so he opted to go look again. Beth stayed home with the boys since we were shopping for them.

The stores were not crowded like they usually are for Black Friday. It has been a lot of years since I have done any shopping the day after Thanksgiving.

I had a red hat to cover my bad hair day. But, I took it off when we got back and Beth took my picture with Tess before they left to go back to Redmond. So that is why my hair makes me look frazzled. I worry less about how my hair looks and comb my hands through it as needed.

Cole, Tess and Ethan as they were getting ready to go back home.

We had a great time with everyone here and it felt so good to be home and know it was where we are. I also took a nice (much needed) nap during the BYU basketball tournament Ron watched at 3:00 p m. I woke up after it was over. I didn't realize I had slept through the whole game! I fell asleep on the couch in the Family room. Ron let me sleep through. I appreciated that. We watched a couple of shows on KBYU and had a good evening together.

This is our Thanksgiving spread with family. Matt and Beth made it in early and were actually the first ones here. I snapped this just before we had the blessing on our meal. Ron gave it and we had a great day. Everyone stayed and visited until late around 8:30 p m.

There was plenty of food and we made lots of memories. The kids and Jeremy played Scrabble and did Origami on colored paper the size of post-its. Of course there was several football games to keep the men occupied as well. The turkey eat fell off the bone, was so tender. Ron fixed it and the delicious stuffing. He said I could make it next time. We also warmed the tamales and were tasty. The gravy turned out well too.


The weather was windy but clear. Some of the kids went outside after our meal. We ate about 2:00. So there was plenty of day light after dinner. Annie brought two pies, Key Lime and Banana Blueberry, which were a big hit. Kevin, Shelly's husband made yummy two pumpkin pies. It wouldn't be Thanksgiving without pumpkin pie! I made a raspberry pie from some raspberries frozen from the one Ron picked last month. I liked it with whipped cream over the top.

Dreams Come True, Answers to Prayers Too

Getting ready for Thanksgiving guests:

Who would have ever thought having a lovely crochet table cloth or two set for our first Thanksgiving would be an answer to my prayers?


Well, it has been my hope for about five years to again have a place to call home of my own and be with a wonderful companion to share it. [with Ron.] That is what today fulfilled.

This is a tablecloth Matt had made for me on his mission in Paraguray. Thanks Matt!
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving Day. Family coming to share it with us means a lot to me, on top of that preparing the Turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy, sweet potatoes, cranberry sauce, homemade rolls, pumpkin pies, apple pie, and fruit pie.
And to add the Heritage food this year as a new tradition. (see my Facebook page), Tamales. We made them yesterday and sampled them.

I have so much to be grateful for all the blessings I enjoy. I have so much support from Ron, my wonderful husband. I tell him how much I appreciate his love and being his wife. IT is beautiful.

It is so fulfilling with my Dreams and Prayers Answered too. I see the hand of God in my life each day.

A Small and Simple Thing

We went to our ward sacrament meeting. It had been three weeks since we attended our own ward. Every time we go it is like we are visitors practically. I feel like it anyway.

The meetings were uplifting and the message was to read our scriptures each day to feel connected to others. I appreciated the talks.

After Sunday school Ron went to his quorum. I stayed and was on the row all by myself. No one came and sat by me. A few ladies talked to me, in front and the back of me, but no one came to sit by me. I was feeling like I had no one to visit with and left there alone.

Then, to my surprise--one of the counselors came to sit by me when the teacher went up to teach the lesson. It made me feel good and not so lost there on the row. It ended up that she is our home teacher's wife. It felt like she cared and it made my day. It was a small and simple kind thing to do.

The lesson was about the signs of the times or the Second Coming. I always enjoy that subject and wanted to go home and read it again with Ron. We talked a little about it on the way home from Church. Our discussions in our classes were very similar which was encouraging.

We had a nice late lunch of roast, sweet potatoes, and asparagus. We put a roast in the crock before we left. It was delicious and had a wonderful lunch together.

We were fortunate to have a late nap for a few hours.

Elect Lady, Alice Nielsen Raynes Passes Away

I am still in shock that Sister Alice Raynes passed away. I attended her husband's funeral in January. It was just ten months ago. This week I read her obituary in the Deseret News.

She and Joe, her husband were a Celestial couple. They were such an example of the pure love of Christ and personified Christ-like love for others as I observed over the years that we were in their ward. I ponder all the memories of Alice and her willingness to help others, use her musical talent and serve with a smile. The photo of her shown was just exactly as she was in life.

When I heard of her passing, I was quietly happy for her to be able to go be with her Sweetheart again. She had a massive heart attack and passed away a few days later. I cannot imagine how their ten children and posterity will manage without them.

Ron and I attended the funeral for Alice. The service was so touching. A few of the children spoke, unlike at Joe's funeral all of the children spoke at his. All them participated in prayers, or sang at Alice's, but only a few were speakers. Her son, Jonathan gave an incredible farewell to his mother, and one could almost see his father in him as he spoke so tenderly of her. He said she was his "first love." He bore his testimony of Jesus Christ, much like his father did as well.

I know the family must have felt the void without her, but I can just imagine that both of their parents will minister to their children and be a strength to them even still.

I feel it was a privilege to have had Joe Raynes as my home teacher for several years before his was called to be bishop. He worked with my Aaron as his first assistant and I knew he treated him with respect and grew close to my son as his bishop.

Alice was one of the sisters I visited as her visiting teacher. I am the one who gained and was blessed to be in that calling. It never ceased to amaze me of her unconditional love and sweet smile when I would go visit her.

She was a choice daughter of God and elect lady. May God bless her family in her absence. I always learn how to be a better person when I attend funerals.

Here are a few things I observed and gleaned from her funeral.

1) Each of her children secretly knew they were her favorite.
2) She was always happy and smiled.
3) She forgot herself and dedicated her life to serving others.
4) She took a trip to Ireland six weeks before she died with one of her daughters.
5) She had talent for playing the cello, piano and organ.
6) She always made me feel I was important to her each time we visited.
7) She was a devoted wife, mother, and friend.
8) She was the oldest of her eight siblings and was very responsible growing up.
9) She was hit by a car as a teen, but refused to go to the hospital to not leave a sibling she was taking care of at the time.
10) She loved the Lord with all her heart, might,mind, and had unconditional love.
11) She loved to read her scriptures everyday and set an example to her children and to others.
12) She always said her prayers and knelt at the side of her bed.

In The Moment .. .Mutual Appreciation

These days I am so thankful for my wonderful companion, husband. Not having had one for so many years lends to the appreciation I have to be with him and enjoy my life at his side.

I thought I would make note of that and share how precious life is and the commitment I made to 1) tell him I love him 2)always let Ron know by my actions each day and moment how much he means to me and (3)is appreciated.

Each day is a new adventure for us. We learn so much about each other and it builds more and more trust between us as each day goes by. He takes time almost every day to rub my feet for me before we go to sleep. My feet had some roughness on them, and since I had my surgery he took it upon himself to make sure my feet had some TLC, tender loving care. They are now about as smooth as the tops of my feet. I also take a few days of the week to massage his feet and give his back a good work over. He always sleeps the longest after I do that it relaxes him so much. I am grateful for that effect it has on him. He deserves it!

He shows me in so many ways how cherished I am. Especially when he demonstrates patience as we go through my storage unit and he helps me pack and sort through all that. He is my angel and helper. We work side by side and get so much accomplished.

The other day, we went to lunch at McDonald's in between working at the storage since it was the closest to where we were at the time. I made sure I went to the bathroom since there are no facilities there at the unit. I mentioned to him that in the past whenever I had that need and was there working at the storage I would find a quart jar and relieve myself and go on with the work.

Well, that urge came again about an hour and a half after we got there, and not wanting to make a big production to go to McDonald's I found the quart jar, and quietly closed the door of the one side of the unit while he worked in the open area of the slide down door to the unit. It was private so after that I told him about and was laughing so hard that I was glad I had already relieved my bladder.

He was impressed that I would even do that and said most women would make him take them to McDonald's to use the bathroom! He said that told him that I was like a pioneer woman and could adapt to the circumstances around me. I took that as a compliment and am grateful for the compliment.

So I came away appreciating the man that he is and the respect he has for me to help me sort through all of the "stuff" aka hud, according to son, Michael. He said he appreciated my ability to "rough it" and even said he could take me camping without worrying about if I could handle it. No worries.

Of course. I don't know if I could have had my babies in the wilds on a trek across the plains but I certainly could adapts to having no bathrooms along the way.

Getting Things Done . . .

Seems like there is always something we need to do to get things in order. Today we went to Orem to get my passport updated with my married name. We had to send off the new one I had just renewed in September along with our certified marriage license. We went to Costco to get a new passport photo. We ordered our Christmas cards too.

Then we also had to take care of some IRS stuffed and change my address. They said I couldn't change me name with them, but that Social Security Administration would take care of that for me. The teller agent there congratulated us and said, "May you be happy for a thousand years." We thought that was so nice and personable. I happened to know the gentleman from working at the temple.

He spoke to us in Spanish, and went very well to take care of the business at hand.

We also took a few minutes to go visit an old friend of mine and called her before to tell her we were close by. My friend Betty Christianson used to know Connie Walser when they lived in Edgemont. Connie used to do her hair. Small world.

My friend Betty is getting up in years and looked so frail. She has Parkinson's now and had tremors. Her hair looked beautiful as usual. She remembered Ron, and he remembered her too, and saw some of her family pictures she had on the wall and see what she looked like then too.

I went away feeling perhaps I that I may not see her again, as she mentioned how she hoped remodeling her house and to see it done, she may not be around for it.

I felt a little sad what that would mean, but know she would be happy regardless. I have missed her over the years we were not in touch. I am glad we took the few minutes to go see her.

Sunday, Fast and Testimony Sacrament Meeting

The first Sunday in November and it is Fast and Testimony Sacrament meeting today. Our morning prayer was about bearing our testimonies if we felt impressed upon to do so.

Well, we were and did. Ron insisted that he go first. So the things he said, I could either agree or say something else. He did a great job and I was pleased. He paid me a great compliment and bore his testimony of the Savior. I was very happy how he said it.

I was able to give mine and express my gratitude for him and how well he was "trained' by Connie. I acknowledge his goodness and how I had waited twenty-five years to find him. When Ron told how many of my friends he was introduced to, would tell him what kind of person I am, and he said he knew that to be true. I saw the sisters in the audience and some of the brethren smile and nod in agreement. He said I was a "jewel," as they nodded. It made me feel good inside and so appreciative for my husband.

I know that it was necessary for me to feel I "deserved" a good husband and man in my life for my eternal companion. One of our guests who came to the reception from our old Cascade II ward told me in my ear as he gave me a hug, how much "I deserved this (good husband and be happy," My heart was full and know Heavenly Father brought us together and that we had a lot of unseen helpers as well.

I bore my testimony in Cincinnati too, but he didn't. I remember telling the ward there that all fifteen of our children and most all their spouses attended the sealing in the temple.

I realized more and more what a great sacrifice and effort it must have taken for them all to be present. I saw several tender mercies and miracles occur for that to come as an answer to prayer. I had felt very strongly that somehow they would all be there. My faith was strong and I was so thankful for that to have happened. It was a dream come true.

I still ponder that special day of our marriage and the pre-sealing talk given by the sealer, Patriarch Donald H. Holdaway. He was also my home teacher for two years. He practically walked me through the last two years, counseling me and giving me such hope that I would have an eternal companion, and just needed to (continue) be patient. He would pronounce blessings in prayer and literally too that showed me how and the way to have an eternal sweetheart.

It was worth the wait. We are so happy together, and each day confirms that. I had confidence from the time we spoke and on until we met and carried on our courtship long distance at first. I feared not, and doubted not. How blessed I am, and we are to be together. He is the love on my life here and forever.

How sweet it is!

I will add pictures soon to this post.

Talk By Grandma Mattie on The Holy Ghost for Allison Fryer

The Holy Ghost--talk given by Grandma Mattie, for Allison’s baptism November 5, 2011

This is a very special day for you, Allison. You have been baptized and now are ready receive the Gift of the Holy ghost. Receiving the Gift of the Holy Ghost a very special blessing. It is A GIFT THAT CANNOT BE BOUGHT ANYWHERE. It is a gift from Heavenly father for his faithful children who have chosen to become members of HIS True
Church. Your Dad will say the words through the laying on of hands through the power of the Holy Melchezidek priesthood.

I will tell you some of the ways it works for you in your life. The Holy Ghost can be with you as you remain worthy of his presence.

He will talk to you through a still small voice that tells you to be careful and warns you of danger that your cannot see with your eyes. it is like having a pair of “spiritual glasses.”
The Holy Ghost is called the “Comforter.” You can feel it like a blanket, and feels good when he is there.

The Holy Ghost is a helper in the Godhead with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ to tell you when you need to know truth and to help you bear your testimony.

The Holy Ghost will always help you to be true to yourself as you listen to its promptings.

It will help you feel peaceful, and happy inside and to know that Heavenly Father loves You! and listens to your prayers.

He will help you get along with your brother and sisters, your parents and friends. They will all love you for that too and bring them Joy. You will notice and even tell your Mom how the Holy Ghost helped you get along with your brother, jacob and sister, Erin too!

Allison, Did you know that When you have the Holy Ghost with you,

You are not easily offended
You feel confident in what you do. Playing in Sports or playing the violin.
You are happy and calm
You mind are clear and full of light
You are giving and generous
You are glad when others succeed.
You want to make others happy and bring out the best in them
You feel like praying.
You are more calm in difficult times.

You overcome temptations.

“BUT THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT US LOVE, JOY, PEACE, LONG SUFFERING, (PATIENT) GENTLENESS, GOODNESS,
MEEKNESS, TEMPERANCE, AGAINST THERE IS NO LAW,

Galatians 5:22-23 Allie, I hope you will remember these things always, Bear Testimony.

I know these thing to be true.

Grandma Mattie

"Home" Again, Juggity, Jig . . .

It seems strange to be back "home" again, figuratively, anyway. Home has been in Lindon for a while, so to call it home is different. Our home is really back in West Richland, WA.

Ron and I arrived in Utah yesterday afternoon. There were several errands to do so we got those done before we got to Lindon. Things look pretty much the same, the weather is a little cooler than when we left a month ago. WE were thankful for safe travel as well.

I guess we could say, Lindon is our second home base. It felt good to be back though. Nothing strange about that.

The grand kids were so excited to see us too, and that allways makes us feel good.

I have a talk to finish writing for Allie's baptism tomorrow, which I was really supposed to be doing now. There are lots of things to get done before going back to West Richland. Ron is overseeing that while I do this. First things first!

Later on today, we get to go see the Hallows, and see baby Presley!! Her mom said she got her second round of immunizations so is not too chipper this morning. She is doing better than yesterday when she first got them. Poor thing. :(

Then we will be back this afternoon to take care of Aislyn, Ella, Parker and Joel. Fun, Fun. We will get a movie and have fresh popcorn and treats. We hope to get a fun, much desired movie too.

Grandparents Visit Primary Sacrament Meeting Program

Today we attended another ward Sacrament meeting program for Annie and Jeremy's ward in Kennewick, Clearwater Ward.

Kaylie and Adam participated and it was very spiritual and uplifting. They each had their parts prepared and did a great job. I just love going to hear the songs, and how well prepared all the children were for it.

They had several favorite songs that I love anyway. One was about living at the time Jesus was on the earth, and the other one was "When He Comes Again."

It was the fourth Primary Sacrament Meeting program we had attended. Our ward's was last week, and then this one, with the Lindon Third ward, and Tracie's ward in Highland in September. Each one was different, but good. The Spirit is always so strong and sweet.

Our Ward met at the same time as theirs so we went to our ward for Priesthood and Relief Society afterwards. It was combined for the fifth Sunday. The lesson was given about the "Worth of Souls", a conference talk by Elder Deiter F Uchtdorf.

Guests for Dinner from Yakima

We had dinner ready for Ronnie and Adrienne's family. We had Chicken Enchiladas, Greek salad, Mexican rice, Guacamole, frijoles refritos (refried beans), pico de gallo (fresh salsa). Ronnie and Adrienne called earlier to see if we could watch the kids while they went to the temple tonight.

We were delighted to have the kids here, and hadn't seen them since the wedding a month ago. The kids were great and were glad to help take care of them. It is wonderful to be able to be grandparents.

Manna From Heaven. . .Rest of the Story

Re: Michael's comment:

This is the rest of the story. Joanna and Heather came to help me purge and organize my house in Orem. I had left a tithing envelope on the desk by the phone in the kitchen. The envelope was gone and missing when I got back after they cleaned. They cleaned so good they could not remember where the envelope could be or was put. I did not have a return address on the envelope, but it was sealed. I felt, at the time that maybe the envelope was thrown away by mistake. I did not know. It just disappeared.

That is why I was bewildered to find it in a file no less, one that I had not put there myself, so I still cannot figure what happened back then.

So the mystery is still unsolved. Was it a matter of not throwing anything away? Maybe,. but it wasn't me that made that decision.

Love, Mom

Manna From Heaven

Yesterday while going through boxes and files, a familiar pre-addressed envelope surfaced. I recognized the envelope as my tithing. It was sealed, but had no name on the outside.

I then remembered that I had misplaced a tithing envelope that contained a cash donation, with the slip all written out and dated too July 24, 2005. It contained a single $100 bill. When it was first misplaced I told the first counselor in our bishopric, Scott Kirkland. It was traumatic to me and I told him I need to pay it again. I had just started a new job and wanted to be sure to pay my tithing even though the envelope just disappeared.

He said, the Lord knew my intent and I didn't need to pay it. I disagreed, so I paid it again. Now I have the $100 and can do anything I want to do with it. I think I will save it for a special item yet unknown.

I have no idea how the tithing enveloped ended up in the file I found yesterday.

Clearing Clutter, Discarding Unneeded, The Excess

The last two days have been spent going through packed boxes from the move from Lindon to West Richland. Ron has been helping me keep going and sorting out the papers, genealogy, pictures, books, rubber stamps, stamp pads and stationary galore and what not. It is the "what not," that kept us so busy.

Ron made some shelves for me to put the books, journals and notebooks. The pine wood planks were 12" by 6'. He used brackets to place the wood and turned out well. It is nice to have a place to have them where I can access them, instead of being put away in boxes, who knows where!

Ron has been very patient and a big help to get the family room tidy. We did that for the living room, and it looks great without the boxes or like we just moved in. There are only a few boxes left to shelf, but lots of stacks and piles to put on the shelves. Tomorrow is a new day.

I am grateful to Ron for his assistance to get the project closer to the finish. Pictures of the final product to be posted later.

Our FIrst Guests for Dinner

We invited Annie, Jeremy,Kaylie and Adam for dinner and family night . We had roast, potatoes, spinach salad, and chard from the garden. Dessert was homemade chocolate chip cookies and vanilla ice cream.



Jeremy gave the family night lesson on the scriptures and the Book of Mormon. We had a fun time and enjoyed having our first guests over for dinner.